Create Healing and Love Now

When we think about love, we often do not think about boundaries. In fact, we usually think the oppostie. We imagine two lovers almost merging into the ethers, so interconnected and intertwined that separation is unnecessary. The need for boundaries is summed up so beautifully by the famous Lebanese poet in the early 20th century, Kahlil Gibran,

But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the
heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of
love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Love is not enough if we stare at our current reality and berate our self for being where we are. Love is all we need if we can pat our self on the back and love our self, every single step along the way toward building the life and relationships we truly desire.

Love brings up anything unlike itself for the purpose of release and healing. Therefore, even in the most “safe” and “loving” relationship, our “intimate” partner may trigger in us emotions, attitudes, insecurities, fears and downright unattractive personal qualities that we have been suppressing and hiding, even from our own self.

Do you know the difference between a successful person and an unsuccessful person? Success results from a mindset, a consistent habit pattern and a way of being. Success in love, in finances, in health and recovery from illness, in business, in athletic or artistic activities, or in any life endeavour requires skills that high level marketers have developed.