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Love is Ending – Divorce is Near

  Spring is here.  Love is in the air.  Romance is blooming.  Couples are meeting, smiling, holding hands and loving each other.   Unless … they feel as if they’ve had enough, they’re angry, they’re bored, they’ve lost interest, they feel betrayed, or they just want a change.  Divorce is not my favorite topic.  When [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 30 – FLOW

I have discovered, for myself, that taking on a challenge gets my psychic and physical energy flowing and aligned. In other words, it puts me into the FLOW.  After 30 days of writing blog posts daily, I want to leave you with the most important aspect of any activity in your life.  If you are [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 29 – MASTERY

Each of us has a MISSION, a goal and intention for our life, that provides for us a sense of value, well-being and importance.  When you know your life MISSION, then it becomes so easy to focus and create your heart’s desire in any area of your life.  All of your energy will be aligned [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 25 – ACCEPTANCE

ACCEPTANCE  is the quality most us are seeking to receive and longing to feel in all of our relationships.  The opposite, rejection or dismissal, can be the most painful and self-demeaning experiences in our lives.  When we feel put down, ignored, invalidated or unnoticed, our world as we know it can collapse.  It doesn’t matter [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of LIfe – Day 24 – FORGIVENESS

FORGIVENESS is not a one-time event.  When we get involved in a relationship, any relationship which involves closeness, shared activities, and dual responsibility, our emotions will sometimes be aroused and not in the way we want and expect.  When the other person upsets us, treats us unfairly, fails to keep promises and commitments, or blindsides [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 23 – RECEPTIVITY

RECEPTIVITY, an open mind, open heart and open arms toward us, cannot help but bring a smile to our face and a warm feeling spreading through our body.  We thrive on someone else’s RECEPTIVITY to us, to our ideas, to our suggestions, to our expressed and unexpressed needs and desires.   Often, we expect the other [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 22 – UNDERSTANDING

UNDERSTANDING surpasses many qualities in life.  With a deep UNDERSTANDING of the complexities of a situation, the different meaning attributed to the same circumstances by the different people involved, we can overcome even the most seemingly impossible difficulties. I remember a story about a Black preacher sharing a TV appearance with a staunch Ku Klux [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 21 – SENSITIVITY

SENSITIVITY  is a quality that many people prefer to hide, wanting to appear strong, indifferent and independent. However, it is precisely when we reveal our SENSITIVITY that the other person’s tender feelings are aroused.  When we reveal our sensitivity, other people tend to feel empowered and important. Then they are more likely to want to [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 19 – TOGETHERNESS

TOGETHERNESS, spending quality time together, with a friend, a business associate, a family member or an intimate partner can help you to develop so many of the qualities talked about in these blogs. But each of us has our own style of closeness.  Some of us want, desire and long for continual physical closeness while [...]

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 18 – PRACTICE

When we are learning a new skill, learning a new process at work, or attempting to develop a new habit pattern, it is essential for us to PRACTICE what we have just learned.  And we need to PRACTICE consistently over a period of time to maintain our skills and achieve the best results.  Creating fulfilling [...]

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