The power of vulnerability is one of the true paradoxes in life. Success in almost any life path requires allowing yourself to get into a state of total and complete vulnerability. Imagine being a top athlete and not playing against anyone at your own level for fear that you might lose. Imagine being a celebrated [...]
Have you ever cheated on your most intimate partner? If not, you may feel quite smug and judgemental when you hear about someone else’s indiscretions. He who lives in a glass house should not throw the first stone. Many of us are loyal to our intimate partner because we have made a joint commitment to [...]
Cuddling may be more important to men then it is to women in determining the satisfaction of long term relationships. Do you believe that? Read what one recent research study discovered. Cuddling Brings Long Term Relationship Joy
* Are you thinking clearly and positively and with high regard for yourself? * Are your thoughts, moment to moment, supporting you to live your dream? * Do you have some nagging self-doubts or negative thinking than hinders you? Read the following list of cognitive distortions, distorted thinking, negative perspectives. Notice how many of these [...]
It never ceases to amaze me how much my body tells me, if and when I listen to its messages. Many years ago I had back problems. At that time, the message was loud and clear that I did not feel supported, that I felt nobody “had my back,” and I felt as if I [...]
Okay, you know the power of love. You feel loved and you have strong love for your own self. But sometimes love is not enough. There are times when someone you work with, someone you spend time with, or someone you live with has disappointed you, betrayed you or crossed a personal boundary. Now, without [...]
This week’s blog post was inspired by my friend and colleague, Stephen Borgman’s recent blog, Create Your Personal Mission Statement His immediate source was from a career counseling book entitled by Richard Nelson Bolles, What Color is Your Parachute? I have taken the liberty to transpose these 3 basic life missions onto our relationship purpose, mission [...]
What if you KNEW, without any doubt that you were loved? Did you know that love often brings up anything unlike itself for the purpose of release and healing? When two people have been a couple for awhile, when the intense hormones of the early days are no longer flooding their systems, often they start to [...]
On my mastermind call this morning, one of my colleagues told me about a powerful video that I am impelled to share with you. So many women have been living lives of quiet desperation. If they have followed the model set before them by their ancestors, they will strive to be “good” wives, “good” mothers, [...]
Love comes in all shapes and colors and sizes. The media flaunts certain images at us which are seen as the icons of beauty and success. Some of us seek love by only viewing the outward appearance which is temporary at best. Those of us who are wise and have learned the art and [...]
