COMMUNICATION, the Big C, can literally make or break a relationship. Our thoughts cannot easily be read by others, even though they feel and respond to the energy we are emanating based upon our thoughts and feelings. But each person interprets energy and internal sensations according to their own concepts and beliefs. That is why meeting a new person can be so exciting and unnerving, because we do not know what they are thinking and feeling. We only know the way our own body is responding and we know our own self-created version of what another person may be experiencing.
Are you able to easily and consistently share COMMUNICATION that expresses what you currently think and feel and at the same time encourages and enables full disclosure and cooperation from others?
You may now have the INCENTIVE, INTENTION, PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE, inner ARCHITECT, PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER, COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE, CREATIVITY, SENSUALITY, and even your full SEXUAL EXPRESSION and COMPASSION for others. But how good is your COMMUNICATION when any one of these attributes within yourself or another person is being challenged, frustrated, suppressed or denied?
Today’s question is: Can you engage in consistent, ongoing and clear COMMUNICATION that allows you to fully express your wants and needs and desires and at the same time encourages and supports the full expression of the expectations and requirements of others? And can you remain in a calm, loving and peaceful state of mind when hearing words you do not want to hear?
- How clearly and precisely do you share your thoughts and emotions, concerns and acknowledgements with others?
- Are your interactions more like consultation, dialogue and free exchange of ideas or monologues during which you are persuading, convincing, and even demanding your per-determined responses from others?
- Do you show others that you are interested in them and that you by responding quickly to their COMMUNICATION attempts and by reaching out often to connect with them?
Ask yourself NOW: Does my COMMUNICATION with others indicate that I am concerned, interested and caring about them or do i tend to communicate when I expect to receive something or get my own needs met?
COMMUNICATION is occurring all the time. We cannot NOT communicate. If we do not send a text, make a phone call or connect in some3 way with another person who is expecting to hear from us, then we are communicating that we do not care that much. If we do not share our needs and desires with the people we live with, work with or spend time with, we are communicating to them that either we don’t have those needs and desires or satisfying them does not matter that much to us.
COMMUNICATION of our wants and needs, intentions and plans, and overall values in life CAN cause us to lose friendships, perhaps lose a job, a client or a customer, but without communicating we begin to lose a sense of our own self. Without communicating, we suppress our own integrity, motivation and determination to follow our dreams.
Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring. Every quality is important, to some degree. It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.
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