TOGETHERNESS, spending quality time together, with a friend, a business associate, a family member or an intimate partner can help you to develop so many of the qualities talked about in these blogs. But each of us has our own style of closeness. Some of us want, desire and long for continual physical closeness while others prefer to have more private, alone time. This can become a conflict if each person in the relationship has a different concept of how much TOGETHERNESS is best.
If you both have a strong INCENTIVE, INTENTION, PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE, inner ARCHITECT, PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER, COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE, CREATIVITY, SENSUALITY, full SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, good COMMUNICATION and you PRACTICE building relationships skills, but one of you requires distance and the other insists on continual TOGETHERNESS, the relationship may require really using those developed skills to get past the inevitable conflict.
Today’s question is: How much TOGETHERNESS do you like, need and require in your personal and business relationships?
- How often do you need to speak with, spend time physically together, and plan activities with another person to feel loved and content?
- Do you feel that you need another person to go with you to restaurants, movies or any other places you desire to go?
- Do you get very attached, expect others to be devoted to you, and do you become angry, jealous and possessive over another person’s activities and friendships?
Ask yourself NOW: Am I willing to adapt to the another person’s need for TOGETHERNESS or distance or can I negotiate cleanly for the amount of TOGETHERNESS that serves us both?
TOGETHERNESS is an essential part of developing an ongoing relationship. Too much separateness, too much distance, often leads to creating connections, emotional ties and even physical contact with someone else.
Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring. Every quality is important, to some degree. It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.
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