Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 30 – FLOW

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I have discovered, for myself, that taking on a challenge gets my psychic and physical energy flowing and aligned. In other words, it puts me into the FLOW.  After 30 days of writing blog posts daily, I want to leave you with the most important aspect of any activity in your life.  If you are operating within this system, everything else seems to fall into place.  When you are in the FLOW, life is beautiful, every moment is an adventure to cherish, and every person is a symbol of God’s love.

Young children naturally function within the FLOW of their everyday activities.  When they get involved in an activity, they are totally present until something distracts them and then they become totally involved in a new activity.  When we are in the FLOW, time moves slowly and we are not impatient.  When we are in the FLOW of love, we are happy to allow the love to build, we enjoy the nuances of our shared experience and we express all those other wonderful qualities I have been talking about for 29 days.  When we are in relationship FLOW, each of us feels accepted, understood, appreciated, acknowledged, trusted and desired.  There is no craving or longing for something outside the relationship because we are able to express our full self and feel all of our feelings.

You may have a strong INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, and  COMMUNICATION. You PRACTICE relationships skills, you balance TOGETHERNESS and AUTONOMY,  your SENSITIVITY. UNDERSTANDING, RECEPTIVITY, FORGIVENESS, ACCEPTANCE, and EMPATHY may be flourishing.  You may know the PURPOSE for your relationship and your life MISSION. You may even have a sense of MASTERY of your relationships and your life.  If you have developed all of the above skills to an adequate (not perfect) level, then you will easily and often find yourself living in the FLOW, loving your life and loving your relationships.

Today’s question is:  How often and how easily do you find yourself living and loving in the FLOW?

  • Are you able to roll with the punches, take the path of least resistance, and enjoy drifting along within your relationships?
  • Can you set the course, ask for what you want, encourage others to express their needs and then creatively rise above the tide?
  • When you feel a surge of fear, discomfort, emotional uncertainty, disappointment even boredom, can you stay the course, ride the wave, and continue to more forward within your relationships?

Ask yourself NOW: Can I stay in the FLOW when I encounter the ups and downs and ins and outs of loving relationships in my life?

Being in the FLOW is what allows works of art to be created.  Being in the FLOW leads to marriage, business development, and success at all levels of human being.  Relationships are a work of art in progress.  The instrument through which we create this masterpiece is LOVE.   With interest, determination, study and practice we CAN develop all the necessary skills and emotional overtones to build exquisite relationships filled with love.  Are YOU ready to develop MASTERY and get into the FLOW?

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 29 – MASTERY

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Mastery is the goal of every action and activity we engage in.  A newborn baby has not developed mastery over even the basic life skills such as eating and eliminating wastes.  Imagine living life in our society without mastery over basic bodily functions and habits.  Most of us would agree that we would have difficulty being productive and social.  However, when it comes to our relationships many of us do not think it is necessary to develop mastery.  We may think erronesously – “This is who I am, take it or leave it.”

You may have a strong INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, and  COMMUNICATION. You PRACTICE relationships skills, you balance TOGETHERNESS and AUTONOMY,  your SENSITIVITY. UNDERSTANDING, RECEPTIVITY, FORGIVENESS, ACCEPTANCE, and EMPATHY may be flourishing.  You may know the PURPOSE for your relationship and how this meshes with your life MISSION. Now is the time to focus on developing MASTERY of your relationships and your life.

Today’s question is:  If you have developed all the required relationship skills to some degree and you continue to practice, how close would you honestly say you are to having a true sense of MASTERY over creating and sustaining love in your most significant relationships?

  • Are you a leader helping others to overcome resistance and learn how to love?
  • Do others naturally turn to you as a mentor, teacher, confidant and expert on creating satisfying love relationships?
  • Can you tolerate differences, wait patiently, understand and accept what you receive, retain your passion and use your creative impulses to bring out the greatest love possible in all of your most significant relationships?

Ask yourself NOW: Have I developed MASTERY over creating, building and sustaining loving relationships?

In his book about motivation in business, Daniel Pink explains that our goal is to develop MASTERY.   But that can be a slippery slope.  It does not usually happen quickly.  It is fraught with obstacles, problems and sometimes requires true grit and persistence to get past the difficulties.  MASTERY, according to Pink, is a goal that cannot ever be reached.  But when we strive for MASTERY, we can create a relationship more beautiful than we could have imagined with love boomeranging back to us the more we give.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 25 – ACCEPTANCE

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ACCEPTANCE  is the quality most us are seeking to receive and longing to feel in all of our relationships.  The opposite, rejection or dismissal, can be the most painful and self-demeaning experiences in our lives.  When we feel put down, ignored, invalidated or unnoticed, our world as we know it can collapse.  It doesn’t matter if we are the most intelligent, most attractive, most talented, best performing athlete, highest paid speaker, most accurate scientist, or most sensitive lover, our sense of ACCEPTANCE can greatly influence the way we view our self, our life, and our actual performance.

You may have a strong INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, and  COMMUNICATION. You PRACTICE relationships skills, you balance TOGETHERNESS and AUTONOMY,  your SENSITIVITY. UNDERSTANDING, RECEPTIVITY and FORGIVENESS are readily apparent.  But are you able to allow full ACCEPTANCE of your relationship exactly the way it is at the current moment without feeling the pressure to deny, suppress or change something immediately.

Today’s question is:  How strong is your emotional capacity for full and unswerving ACCEPTANCE of the current reality in your business, professional, and personal relationships?

  • Are you able to receive the gifts that others are willing and able to give, even if they fall far short of your desires and expectations?
  • Can you tolerate differences of opinion, lifestyle, values, behaviors and attitudes and even acquiesce in support of another person’s agenda?
  • Can you freely recognize, acknowledge, and approve of others even when their beliefs and actions directly conflict with your own?

Ask yourself NOW: How easily and readily can I allow ACCEPTANCE to overrule my need to be right, my desire to make changes, and my fear that I am losing control in a relationship?

ACCEPTANCE may be the glue that holds a relationship together.  After many years of shared space at home or in a work environment, ACCEPTANCE of each others temperament, needs, and style of behaving can lessen the stress and expand the love.  Love and ACCEPTANCE is the honey that soothes old wounds, bridges gaps in communication, and feeds the process of bonding in any relationship.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of LIfe – Day 24 – FORGIVENESS

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FORGIVENESS is not a one-time event.  When we get involved in a relationship, any relationship which involves closeness, shared activities, and dual responsibility, our emotions will sometimes be aroused and not in the way we want and expect.  When the other person upsets us, treats us unfairly, fails to keep promises and commitments, or blindsides us in some reprehensible way, to maintain the relationship we will have to practice FORGIVENESS.

The New Testament of the bible states that we need to forgive “70X7.”  It does not tell us to forgive once and then walk away.  It does not tell us to forgive and expect the other person to instantly discontinue their wayward activities.  No, the bible reminds us to keep forgiving and even to “turn the other cheek.”  We are also told that “the meek shall inherit the earth.”

Does this mean that we owe it to other people to become a perpetual doormat?  No.  There is a deeper meaning to FORGIVENESS.  What I like to use as a metaphor is a person who is a Black Belt in Karate or a master at Tai Chi or some other martial art.  When a student reaches a high level of mastery in a fighting sport, that person knows how to instantly kill another person.  Knowing that bring a powerful responsibility.  A martial arts master will not seek a fight, will not provoke a fight, and will willingly turn the other cheek and forgive 70X7.  However, if the danger or provocation by the other becomes too great, the master may just point a finger with total clarity and intensity of focus, and the other person will either go flying or will be struck dead.

So here you are.  You have established your INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, and  COMMUNICATION. You PRACTICE relationships skills, you balance TOGETHERNESS and AUTONOMY,  your SENSITIVITY. UNDERSTANDING and RECEPTIVITY are strong.  But what happens when another person does you wrong, hurts you, disappoints you, abuses you or betrays your trust and love?

Today’s question is:  How strong is your willingness to allow FORGIVENESS to rule in all situations in your life – maybe not in the exact moment of emotional devastation – but as you develop greater understanding and wisdom?

  • Are you able to readily forgive another person for wrongdoing without holding on to blame and criticism, judgement and ruthless distancing?
  • Can you absolve yourself or someone else from guilt and blame, showing mercy and tolerance, even if  the remorse and regret is not as strong as expected?
  • Do you understand, pardon, feel compassion and even pity for the other person, knowing that if someone feels loved they do not need to hurt others?

Ask yourself NOW: How easily and readily am I able to practice FORGIVENESS of myself first and then all others with whom I am in even a momentary relationship?

FORGIVENESS  is powerful.  It frees up our energy, allowing our mind to focus on what we choose in the present moment.  Without FORGIVENESS, our mind loops back over and over ruminating about someone or something that has not pleased us.  And then our emotions kick in and we feel upset, disgruntled, frustrated, angry and whatever else gets stirred up in our consciousness.  As we allow FORGIVENESS to enter our consciousness, we are instantly soothing our body, relaxing our thinking process and bringing our mind, mind and spirit into balanced equilibrium.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 23 – RECEPTIVITY

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RECEPTIVITY, an open mind, open heart and open arms toward us, cannot help but bring a smile to our face and a warm feeling spreading through our body.  We thrive on someone else’s RECEPTIVITY to us, to our ideas, to our suggestions, to our expressed and unexpressed needs and desires.   Often, we expect the other person – in business, in family, in friendship and in our most intimate relationship – to be receptive, caring, demonstrating acceptance, and being friendly and approachable to us.  But do we reciprocate?

You may be clear about your INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, SEXUAL EXPRESSION, COMPASSION, and  COMMUNICATION. You PRACTICE your relationships skills, you are able to balance TOGETHERNESS and AUTONOMY,  your SENSITIVITY  and UNDERSTANDING are strong. But can you allow your RECEPTIVITY to surpass your resistance, judgement, blame, emotional upsets and resentments that occur when life hits you some curve balls?

Today’s question is:  How strong is your RECEPTIVITY to another person’s different perspective, opposing needs and desires, and alternative ways of handling and altering plans and activities that directly affect you?

  • Are you accessible, approachable, open, friendly and readily interested in the people with whom you have business and personal relationships?
  • Can you avoid expressing hostility, judgement, anger, frustration and disdain when another person directly opposes what YOU think is the correct and best way to do something?
  • Do you remain calm and centered, caring and attentive toward yourself and another person, in the face of that person’s anger, argumentativeness, lack of empathy, intimidation and aggression?

Ask yourself NOW: How much RECEPTIVITY am I able to exhibit before I start to resist, judge, blame, withdraw and indicate my displeasure at another person’s attitudes and actions that differ from what I want and expect?

RECEPTIVITY is one of the qualities that we all love in babies, young children and in starry eyed lovers.  They respond openly with all of their senses.  They smile and laugh, giggle and reach out to touch, and are totally accepting of the present moment and the person who is presently the object of their attention and affection.  However, as a baby grows up and as two lovers spend more time together, they may gradually lose that spontaneous RECEPTIVITY.  Concerns and issues of daily living, unmet needs, and inappropriate expectations can cause a once receptive person to become guarded, self-protective, distrustful and resistant.  The goal is to develop Beginner’s Mind, to become like a child again or a lover of life, and to embrace life with a full dose of RECEPTIVITY daily.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of LIfe – Day 16 – COMPASSION

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COMPASSION may be the most important human quality.  We can actually feel COMPASSION toward another person even if they are brutally hurting us emotionally and even physically.  If you look at a little baby, you will notice that they are pure love.  They respond to smiles with open eyes and big broad giggly smiles.  They react to negative energy with fear and contraction and crying.  Watch that little innocent baby grow up.  If he or she has received good enough parenting with lots of love and affection, that person will be able to share love with others as an adult.  However, if that child is neglected, abused, rejected  abandoned and does not have the guidance, support and love of at least one other person in life, it is not surprising for that person to hurt others without feeling remorse.

Do YOU regularly feel COMPASSION for your most intimate partner, for your colleagues, bosses and employees, your neighbors, your friends and family members and even for strangers you have never met?

So you have an INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE,  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, ability to SURRENDER,  COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE,  CREATIVITY,  SENSUALITY, and full SEXUAL EXPRESSION.  Then, as long as your partner is also sharing all these wonderful attitudes and enabling you to freely express your sexuality, you will be fine.  But what happens when your partner or other people in your life are not behaving well, are not sharing their love and passion, desire and creativity with you?  What happens when you have finally healed your emotional baggage and the other people are laying their stuff upon you?

Today’s question is:  Can you feel COMPASSION for the emotional, physical, mental and spiritual struggles of the people in your life, even and especially when they are witholding their love from you?

  • When you are not getting what you want and things are not going well, are you able to remain kindhearted and benevolent toward others  in your life?
  • Do sympathize when others are suffering and are you able to imagine being in their shoes so that you can help them to discover a different way to respond?
  • Can you continue to express concern, consideration and loving support even, and especially, when others are emotionally off-center, defensive or shut down?

Ask yourself NOW: Do I allow myself to recognize the emotional pain and suffering of other people when they behaving badly, expressing the opposite of love, and attempting to hurt me in some way?

COMPASSION  occurs most easily when we have exercised the muscles of our emotional heart.  When we have personally suffered and now recognize our own unique value and the special worth of every single person, then we do not have to get triggered by their emotional upsets. Most of the time, the emotions of others have very little to do with us and the present moment.  Something right now has triggered a thought, a memory or an emotion about something from the past.  If we can remain calm and loving and share true compassion, we can bring the other person back into the present moment. 

When we stop feeling compassion, we have temporarily lost our realization of just how powerful we are.  Power does not come from externally controlling anyone or anything.  Power comes from recognizing our own internal strength and our role as a reminder to others of just how powerful they are.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 14 – SENSUALITY

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In the early stages of a romantic relationship, SENSUALITY is naturally expressed in your style of dress, your activities, your words and your thoughts.  SENSUALITY relaxes and stimulates your body and your mind, enabling you to build an intimate bond, even when your relationship hits a rough period.

Your INCENTIVE, INTENTION,  PRESENT MOMENT awareness, DRIVE  inner ARCHITECT,  PATIENCE, and ability to SURRENDER may wane as the realities and routines of every day living set in.  You may still have a strong COMMITMENT, TRUST, DISCERNMENT, PASSION, DESIRE and CREATIVITY. Yet without being able to express your natural SENSUALITY, your body may interfere with your mind’s good intentions and basic values.

Today’s question is:  Are you feeling sensually alive?  Does your SENSUALITY arise naturally, consistently and easily in your relationships or has your sensual awareness gradually diminished?

 

  • Does your body feel healthy, strong, flexible and sensually vibrant?
  • Are you aware of and experiencing pleasant sensual stimulation in your daily living?
  • Do you feel sexy, sensual, attractive, erotic and desirous of physical contact?

Ask yourself NOW: Am I expressing my SENSUALITY with my thoughts, my words, my body language and my physical movements?

SENSUALITY  is the spice of an intimate relationship and the impetus behind building a business empire.  Before our dream can materialize, we need to experience it with all of our senses.  What we feel with our senses bypasses and overrides  our conscious mind.  When we connect with our own bodily sensations and others feel the power of our sensual energy, they will naturally be attracted to us and follow our lead.

Relationships are built upon the complexity and interactions among all the different possible qualities, both positive and negative, that we can bring.  Every quality is important, to some degree.  It is really the balance among all the different possibilities that can lead to joy and happiness or sadness and emotional devastation.

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Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 1 – INCENTIVE

Love in the Blizzard of Life – Day 1 – INCENTIVE
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Love in the Blizzard of Life is my novel.</>I, completed writing it on 11/24/12, spent most of December editing and formatting and I uploaded it to CreateSpace.com on 12/24/12. I seem to work well within 30 day limits. My blogging colleague, Beth Hewitt , invited me to join a 30 day blogging challenge starting 1/01/13. Since I was still busy awaiting my second proof for my novel, I hesitated about starting a new commitment. But I know there is tremendous power of commitment and that is why I resisted starting. And then I saw a post by another blogging friend, Donna Merrill, saying that she had overcome her resistance and decided to join the challenge. And then a 3rd colleague, Nick Catricala shared his writing resistance and the 4 pillars of success, beginning with incentive. That’s when I realized that I had not had the incentive until after reading both of my friends’ blog posts. Now that I have the incentive to join the crowd and do what they are doing, I also have my intention.

My goal for the month of January 2013 is to share my principles of love, creating loving relationships, healing from the Blizzards of Life, and learning to love myself and others no matter what is currently happening. I have created a Relationship Healing Mastermind Community at Google Plus. I am also planning to create a local Relationship Healing Mastermind Meetup. And – I am going to resume my Healing Through Love BlogTalk Radio show. That is a lot going on at the same time but it is all connected and leading to one thing – Creating Loving Relationships in 2013. INCENTIVE Each day during this first month of January, I will ask a question about the current principle required for creating absolutely marvelous relationships in your life.

Today I begin with the word INCENTIVE. Ask yourself NOW: Do I have the incentive to create wonderful relationships in my personal, family and business worlds? How will I know if I truly do have the incentive to create better relationships?

1. You feel motivated. You read articles, books, blog posts. You listen to audios and watch videos. You ask questions and listen to the answers given by those you are already in relationship with. And you continue to do that in a mood of optimistic anticipation of good results.

2. You have a reason, a strong and pressing reason to improve your relationships. You may have realized that the other person is not the cause of your problems. You may have been feeling alone and sad and you want to feel better. Your business may have been not at the level you want it to be and you are ready to meet and network with more people. Your partner (spouse or business partner) has threatened to break off the relationship if something doesn’t change. Or maybe your relationship that is not up to par is the one you have with your own self. Maybe you are not happy with your weight, your muscle tone, or your overall physical health and you are finally ready to make a commitment to improve your physicality. Maybe your emotional life could use improvement and you are finally ready to seek counseling or coaching and reach out to others.

3. You feel encouraged. You have a sense that NOW is the right time, NOW you will have the resources and support you need to make the changes. You feel that you CAN make these changes. Perhaps you have already made some progress or you have seen others similar to yourself who have made progress toward similar goals.

ASK YOURSELF NOW: DO I HAVE AN ADEQUATE INCENTIVE TO CREATE MAGNIFICENT, HEALING, PASSIONATE, JOYFUL AND LOVING RELATIONSHIPS IN 2013?

Check in with yourself. Did you feel a glitch of “No, I can’t do that” or “It’s not me, it’s because of my …. (boss, girlfriend, father, wife, my lack of money, lack of education, etc. – you fill in the blank). Okay. Take a deep breath. Sit quietly for a moment. Let go of whatever has held you back in the past. And now, ask yourself again: DO I HAVE A STRONG ENOUGH INCENTIVE TO CREATE MAGNIFICENT, HEALING, PASSIONATE, JOYFUL AND LOVING RELATIONSHIPS IN 2013?

There is power in having a strong INCENTIVE. Stay tuned for the next powerful word to help you build the solid foundation your relationships have been wanting and needing.

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Are YOU Worthy of Love?

Are YOU Worthy of Love?

Every time I drive in my car I now listen to Sirius XM with no commercials, only music.  My favorite station is Siriusly Sinatra.  Listening to some of the most powerful voices (like that of Johnny Matthis) singing their most memorable songs, I am struck by the fact that the vast majority are all about my favorite subject,
“LOVE.”  And the other day I even discovered another station called “Love.”

Most of the love songs from way back when until current times consist of idealized versions of intimacy and love, unrequited and painful suffering in the throes of love, wanting and longing to receive someone else’s love, or even the sentiment that one cannot go on living or is not worthy of anything without love.

Many of us do believe that without the love, loyalty, companionship and passionately intimate connection with the partner or partners of our choice, that we will suffer interminable emotional pain.  Continue reading